Anyway, this morning, as I wondered what to do to celebrate and spread awareness, I thought about person-first language and about something I hope you already know to be true for yourself: No one descriptor, no single role, defines who you are.
The same is true for Meredith.
So, in the spirit of the day and celebrating all 47 of her chromosomes, I offer you 47 ways she might describe herself.
- She reads voraciously.
- She dances any time of day.
- She tucks her baby dolls in for nap.
- She wakes up early.
- She pushes her bedtime.
- She spins in circles while she sleeps.
- She scribbles with crayons.
- And sometimes she bites them.
- She amuses her brother with peek-a-boo.
- She cooks eggs with her dad for breakfast.
- She folds laundry with her mom.
- She writes the alphabet on her iPad.
- She hugs the vacuum cleaner.
- She cheers for women's basketball.
- She watches Sesame Street.
- But she prefers Super Why.
- She reserves the right to be particular about her food.
- She wants soft pretzels.
- She asks to be excused after meals.
- And then she stacks the chairs at her table.
- She swings.
- She slides.
- She puzzles.
- She blows bubbles
- She squishes Play-Doh.
- She accepts bribes of stickers.
- And chocolate.
- She knows the letters of the alphabet.
- She counts--sometimes with all of the numbers and sometimes by the "skip a few" method.
- She likes bandaids on her boo-boos.
- She kisses other people's boo-boos to make them "all better."
- She sings in the stroller.
- She sings in the car seat.
- She sings while she's getting her hair dried.
- She attends preschool.
- She makes a plan--it's usually "table tops."
- She thrives on routine.
- She bends into super flexible positions.
- She listens and follows directions.
- She ignores directions and pitches a fit.
- She anticipates Thursdays for our trips to the library and dance class.
- She shops at Target.
- She shares her toys with her brother.
- She snatches toys away from her brother.
- She apologizes with a hug and a kiss.
- She dotes on her cousins.
- She has Down syndrome.
So today, help spread awareness about Down syndrome. Make a donation to a support organization. Listen to a new parent talk about their joys and challenges. Read a book about Down syndrome to kids. And remember that no single label...Down syndrome or otherwise...tells the whole story about who a person is.